There's a certain point in a woman's life when playing games means nothing anymore. It gets boring and she realizes that she could do every other thing instead. Usually this happens when you realize what you're worth and who you are. Snobbish or not, I decided not to take credit for someone else's loss.
I am not willing to give people time anymore because I know time is my most precious asset right now. I've got to a point where I do not care or need people's acceptance, their compliments, or their admiration. I am very capable of feeling comfortable with my qualities and my flaws, to know what I can offer and what I can't.
We usually need compliments and support to built a strong self confidence. Oh well... I managed to do that by myself.
I'm not saying I don't need people around me to like me or to correct me when I go the wrong ways but I am not willing to make efforts to keep someone in my life or convince someone to keep me in theirs. I just want to act natural and follow my instinct in the moment. I want to be honest and not try to distinguish the words between the lines. It was fun for a while to try and read thoughts, but right now I am in the process of "speak now or forever hold your peace".
Being able to reborn from your own ashes gives you a certain confidence that you can walk away from almost everything :) So...when you have to deal with confused people and interpret their confused actions...you just don't want to lose time.
And, off course, I am more that willing to receive the same treatment from others. I don't need people to read my thoughts and guess my desires. If I want something, I get it. If I need someone I'm gonna tell him/her. Losing moments is not in my to do list anymore.
I love the flirting game, the psychological game of getting to know someone, but making these processes a permanent mood gets me tired. And, presently I have so many exciting options...to believe that everything is possible instead of getting stuck in a confused moment :)
So...to summarize all the words above: don't you toy with me :) It will only get you to lose me :) Be straight and you might get my attention. I'm losing interest very easily as it is, you don't need to race me in that direction :)
Live well and prosper!